Even if it didn’t end crazy, abruptly; messy or heated I still feel like sometimes you need to be away from each other for a while, sort of heal up & then calmly discuss the relationship. Get whatever you need to get off your chest to fully move on.
A lot of people say they have moved on & to an extent they have because they have someone new in their life & haven’t talked to their ex in however long but sometimes that book isn’t truly closed for good till you go back & have like a final discussion as cool, calm, moved on adults.
I recently had one of those convos with my EX that I haven’t talked to in a while …..we both apologized for certain things we never apologized for during our relationship got things off our chest about the break up, came to a full understanding & I actually feel way better; like a weight was lifted off my shoulders, even though all this time I never felt like I was holding on to anything or had loose ends with her. Yet I feel like things are finally settled & done with. Its weird cause all this time I had moved on but NOW I ACTUALLY FEEL LIKE I FULLY MOVED ON.
its like in movies when a ghost is still lingering around & fucking with the living because they’re holding on to some shit & when they finally realize it, then come to terms with things they finally move on to heaven or whatever the fuck.
yeah its like that but not like that -_-