Ever notice how people get soooooo pissed off about other peoples dating preferences ? That always amazed me @ how people can get so fired up about why people choose to pursue/date a certain type/race.
Yeah sometimes it may be ignorant & racist but honestly why give a fuck. Why should i get fired up about some white woman not wanting to date black guys because she thinks they're to aggressive or thinks they will be dead beat dads. Maybe its just me but I've learned to brush off peoples opinions, feelings, views & preferences a long time ago. I'd catch so much hell from people if i said i only date white women or Asian women. I'll be told how i don't love my mother & how I'm a disgrace to the black community & i need help & i hate myself & blahh blahh .......but what if its nothing to it besides the fact that i just find the women of one certain race more attractive than my own ? I don't see the crime in that. I know allot of people wont agree with me on this but that's fine. Some people cant help these attractions, specially when you're parents are lowkey racist & frown upon you dating certain races. One of my friends is Hispanics & she only dates black guys ....she doesn't like how Hispanic guys treat their women. Cant knock her for that, that's how she feels. Black girls go ape shit when they find out someone openly admits to not wanting to date black girls.
Like i said to me its all a preference just like people have a preference to date buff guys, or skinny women, light skin women, dark skin men, guys with tattoos, guys that are hardcore rockers, ect ect ect. Everybody cant be as open & as accepting as me lol
Yeah sometimes it may be ignorant & racist but honestly why give a fuck. Why should i get fired up about some white woman not wanting to date black guys because she thinks they're to aggressive or thinks they will be dead beat dads. Maybe its just me but I've learned to brush off peoples opinions, feelings, views & preferences a long time ago. I'd catch so much hell from people if i said i only date white women or Asian women. I'll be told how i don't love my mother & how I'm a disgrace to the black community & i need help & i hate myself & blahh blahh .......but what if its nothing to it besides the fact that i just find the women of one certain race more attractive than my own ? I don't see the crime in that. I know allot of people wont agree with me on this but that's fine. Some people cant help these attractions, specially when you're parents are lowkey racist & frown upon you dating certain races. One of my friends is Hispanics & she only dates black guys ....she doesn't like how Hispanic guys treat their women. Cant knock her for that, that's how she feels. Black girls go ape shit when they find out someone openly admits to not wanting to date black girls.
Like i said to me its all a preference just like people have a preference to date buff guys, or skinny women, light skin women, dark skin men, guys with tattoos, guys that are hardcore rockers, ect ect ect. Everybody cant be as open & as accepting as me lol
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I'm open and accepting =)
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