I DID A POST ON THIS A WHILE BACK BUT ITS BACK AGAIN
i was having a discussion with some friends about men using the word "BITCH"
& of course it got pretty out of control
some females said that guys (especially black guys) over use the word
& some said that no woman deserves to be called a bitch under any circumstances
of course i ask why?? why do you feel no woman deserves to be called a bitch ?
& her response was "would you like someone calling your mother or sister a bitch ?"
of course my answer is NO .......of course i don't want my mom being called any name but that doesn't mean i should feel like any other random ass female should get a pass or that i should get overly heated about the word & ignore the intent
we arent even talking about directly calling any women bitches to their face just as a reference / simple name calling
but some guy just approaching my mom like hey bitch yada yada of course all hell is gonna break loose i wont like that {that's plain disrespectful}
but that's different from my mom running somebodies kid over & the dad running out like you fucking BITCH wtf did you do you killed my baby {still disrespectful but understandable} like i can understand why he would be calling my mom a bitch not gonna like it but i understand
like some blogger going home & telling a story about his day & how he was behind some old bitch & that bitch happens to be my mom (i don't know that) but it was said
that's life the word is USED by males all the time .........i don't feel like she should be so stressed behind it 24/7 like sometimes it should get a pass
im not going to feel anger behind some random female being called a bitch the way i would feel anger behind my mom sister or girlfriend being called one
its only natural
maybe cause I'm not a girl i cant feel as strongly behind it as i could feel a sense of anger behind a random black person being called a nigger
which i felt she had that type of passion for the word BITCH used in any way
i felt like she was making the word bitch seem like you were wishing death upon them
like if I'm watching the news & its a story about some woman molesting & busing kids & i call her a bitch your going to get mad & say don't call her that she doesn't deserve it............because shes a woman & no woman deserves it
idk i just don't believe in that pass
(note) im not the type to just call women bitches just to be calling women bitches now I'm not saying i haven't done it but i try to re-frame from using it when referring to women
& even tho I'm not the type i still felt the need to defend all the males who are the type & mean no harm lol just for the sake of arguing
but i honestly wanted to know why some women feel like they should have this certain immunity ??
like you would lose respect for a man calling a woman out of her name even if shes asking for it like fuck hitting her i just want to call her a couple names of course you will have tons of respect for him if he walks away but you shouldn't lose any because he decided to talk some shit
idk i found it weird that she stood behind that so strongly
she even brought up slavery type shit like we are holding women down & inslaving them with it
so the next part of my arguement i had to ask do you get mad at comedians who use the word bitch? SHE SAYS NO
do you not laugh @ any line that had the usage of the word bitch SHE SAYS SHE STILL LAUGHS
do you use the word bitch ? SHE SAYS SHE USES THE WORD
do you get mad when some of your female friends call you bitch SHE SAYS NO
do you ever get mad & call people bitches male or female ? SHE SAYS YES
& the cherry was do you get mad when gay guys say bitch? & SHE SAYS NO
sooooooooo its cool for you to say it cause you're a girl ? is it cool because is it like the agreement that black people have established with the world that we can say nigga/nigger but any other race is banned from using it??
its cool if its being said but not directed at you ?
do you not like the word just because it seems like every dude just over does it & it seems like they have no respect for women at all ??
& she had this blank stare cause she knew she had to answer yess
which i understood because it is over used but hey thats life no need to take it to the extreme especially when your just playing on both sides of the field
name calling is name calling its just a word .............some have a bigger impact than others of course
but my whole point i didn't think it was fair to
my main point was you shouldn't let that particular word do so much damage & that there are times when it can slide ....no don't let it slide like let dudes call you it even tho they mean it in a nice way but don't get mad @ your homeboys because they use it
but hey everyone is different feelings are different passions are different
but i just wanted her to lighten up on the guys
now watch people start thinking i promote calling any & every female bitches & hoes =[