i came up witt the top 10 obvious reasons whyy relationships end up being garbage
note ive develope all these opinions from experience or being an eye & ear wittness =]
1. NO TRUST
2. JEALOUSYY
3. BAD SEXX
4. NO TIME
5. DISTANCE
6. RUMORS
7. BABYY MAMA BABYY DADDYY DRAMA
8. FRIENDS
9. NO EXCITMENT
10. DOMESTIC ABUSE SHYT
OF COURSE FOR DIFFERENT PEOPLE DIFFERENT 1'S ARE RATED HIGHER UP IN RELATIONSHIP DAMAGE
1. NO TRUST .........obviouslyy if theres no trust then u cant function ..... u cant be happyy with somebodyy who alwayys has that doubt in theyre brain & theyy make shur that u know theyy have doubts. id sayy most girls have trust issuses for the obvious reason that!!!!!!! & that would be..... theyy have been cheated on or th guyy theyy were with juss lied to much & just like most bad experiences theyy stayy with u & u never forget them & if ur putt in a situation where it can happen again then ur constantlyy think'n about it ....sooo when ur back in a relationship all u can think about is how your trust was broken by another GUY/GIRL & ur think'n hmmmmmmmmmmm its best i just stayy on my toes & not trust u at all which causes friction
it makes u wanna snoop, read text, call numbers, ask a million questions, assume, stalk, sett em up, & all kinda shyt ... u dont want them to go outt cause ur soo worried about what can happen & what theyre doing
as for me !!! ive learned how to start over with everyy new person i date
& when i sayy start over that doesnt mean be stupid or 2 clueless but dont be over the top with it & u knowwwwwwwwww when ur doing to much
2.JEALOUSyy/INSECURITYY ............jealousyy is an insecurityy alott of people have in relationships .... i had a gurlfriend that was extremelyy jealous of my bestfriend which was a girl by the wayy....... because we were soo close & she began to feel threatened by her & i see it happen to alott of people............speciallyy when ur kind of having ruff times witt ur mate ....... it alwayys sucks when your not happyy together but theyyre alwayys happyy when theyy talk to theyre bestfriend of the opposite sexx & if ur a paranoid person jealous with insecurities then u might think theyre not reallyy a friend theyre just tryying to date the person your with.
speciallyy with all the bestfriends that end up liking eachother now a dayys
its almost becoming a normal symptom
its to the point now if your in a relationship u cant hang outt witt ur bestfriend on some solo shyt with outt ur mate tripping & thats annoyying when u cant even associate with close friends that were there before ur mate because theyy want 2 tripp witt theyre jealousyy & insecurities
then u have some people who think theyre not good enuff for the person theyre with soo theyy alwayys think anyy time ur outt theres a chance ur gonna meet some one better or hotter & leave them
jealousyy can also make u paranoied to where u think everyy person in the world wants to talk to ur mate ..... soo u gett pissed off anyy time theyy conversate with anyybodyy else i guess its not reallyy jealousyy because u have them alreadyy soo u cant be jealous its juss being flatt outt paranoid & insecure
3. BAD SEXX .... i dont care what nobodyy sayys sexx is a bigg part of an relationship... speciallyy when u have been in sexxuallyy active relationships in the past
side note: everyy time i sayy sexxuallyy active i think of juno when she sayys what does that even mean lmao
thats whyy i dont understand whyy people wait till theyy gett married to have sexx
i dont care how shallow this sounds if the sexx sucks i cant stayy with u ..........u can have the best personalityy in the world & be gorgeous as hell but if the sexx sucks then i have to go ................ alott of people juss have the idea that theyy can juss train the person & eventuallyy the sexx will pick up
which im ok with i wouldnt have a problem training but sometimes/most of the time u juss know the sexx isnt gonna pick up its gonna suck because theyre private parts suck lol
& sometimes theyy can have good privates but its juss not exciting enuff its juss real boring & basic which can kill the realtionship ..... no oral sexx can kill it ass well note: married guyys alwayys cheating with the nastiest girls going to strip clubs & buyy prostitutes
4. NO TIME ....this goes outt to the all the people that stayy on theyre grind & dont reallyy gett the time to spend with theyre mates ... & when u dont spend time 2 grow together it gives u time to grow apart simple science & when ur not even connecting with eachother its pointless to continue
5. DISTANCE .......is prettyy much the same as the no time for eachother thing & its even worse if its long distance then ur reallyy not gonna have a connection besides the phone lines & i doubt a phone can keep a relationship going ............ i have yett seen a long distance relationship work outt .............whatever the plan was or is
it falls apart
theyy dont last long enuff apart to make it back to together
like the ohhh im going to school n NY imma leave u in cali juss wait for me
il visit during break & holidayys plus we have the phone & video chatt ahahahha fuck all of that all that....... distance between eachtother leaves more room for the next person to comfort u & keep u companyy nothing better than an actual person right there to be with
the onlyy wayy i see it working is if i have somebodyy to have sexx with while im gone & if its somebodyy ur having sexx with on a regular its onlyy a matter of time before u gett attached to them being ur companyy & next thing u know yall 2 are date'n & the person back home is forgotten .... i mean u never see them anyy wayy soo whyy not fuck with whats right n front of u
6. RUMORS ... this one is for people still in school famous or juss have a bunch of friends with in the same circle of a next group of friends
when ur apart of anyy of those its a chance rumors can float around about u because people talk speciallyy when ur in school together or famous
& hearing shyt about who ur with will gett annoyying & putt stress on the relationship if ur mate likes to ask about them all the time
believe them or
playy into them
7. BABYY MAMA BABYY DADDYY DRAMA .... as u see it sayys drama lol enuff said right ......... i tried to talk to a girl that had a babyy & she couldnt help but 2start talking about how her dude is whack no good he wont buyy pampers blahh blahh aghhhhhhhhhhh i went crazzyy i do not wanna hear about that stuff ..... then u have the babyy mamas & dads that dont wanna lett go theyy wanna gett attitudes with u fight u & ruin ur relationship on some ignorant shyt most deff not worth it
i think the onlyy time its ok to deal with people that have kidds alreadyy is when ur all mature & grown up .... like late 20's & up cause by then the babyy mama & daddyy hopefullyy should know how 2 act & respect others & deal with u being n a relationship
8. FRIENDS .... sometimes ur friends can be the death of ur relationship
depending of what kind of friends u have of course some friends are too needyy some have bad habbitts some are jealous some are untrust worthyy some talk to much i mean its all kind of reasons whyy ur friends can be poisoness to ur relationship juss depends on ur crowd
fdor example
a crowd of smokers can irritate a person that wants u 2 quit because theyy love u & care about ur health or juss plain outt dont like it
some people have theyre friends over wayy to much & that can annoyy the person ur with
9. NO EXCITMENT ......... lazzyy??? juss never go outt never wants to tryy anyything different doing the same shyt all the time can gett tiresome ..... when ur not excited & having fun witt the person ur with how can u stayy ?? ive seen alott of people break up because the person they were with juss liked to do nothing
10. DOMESTIC ABUSE SHYT......... being phsycially & mentallyy abused of course makes u want to leave i know alott of dumb people that putt up with it but eventuallyy theyy gett fed up & leave it ruins the relationship
even people that liked it eventuallyy had to do awayy with it
